Happy Friday darlings! The below picture has been floating around Facebook and I absolutely adore it! Never give up on your dreams… have a wonderful weekend…xx
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A part of me feels guilty. I have been back in the states for a month and I am already thinking about my next travel adventure. This time it will be closer to home. I am thinking a US road trip. I live in a wonderful country yet have only experienced a fraction of what it has to offer. There are so many places I want to see and haven’t. Time to hit the road…
What if we lived a life in which we accepted ourselves just the way we are? What if we accepted other people just the way they are? What if we took it one step further and replaced accept with love? Just imagine if we didn’t live life striving to be someone which we can’t be. A square peg cannot fit in a round hole. And why would it want to?
Too much energy is placed into believing the way we are is not okay. It’s as if there is a rulebook which we follow and check in with as to what we can be or not be. Our parents, society and friends all influence this rulebook. Ideally this so-called rulebook would be tossed away, ignored, forgotten, but that is not possible. How can you throw away ideas that are so deeply ingrained in your mind? Even if these ideas are false. Since we cannot just simply throw away these false ideas we need to learn to accept the we are. Not the way society wishes us to be or anyone else wishes us to be. Love and accept your race, your gender, your sexuality, your love handles, your insecurities, your freckles and everything else! It all makes you a part of who you are.
You are perfect just the way you are. You are beautiful just the way you are. There is only one of you and that’s pretty freakin awesome!
I have a gypsy soul. I am a dreamer. A wanderer. A creator. A lover. A artist. All I want is to travel the world endlessly. I dream of a simple life. A free life. I dream of a gypsy life. I have a gypsy soul.
Tips, suggestions, advice and (hopefully) useful information based on my recent travels throughout Bali. If you have questions on topics I didn’t cover just ask.
Itinerary… to plan or not to plan? I would suggest planning accommodation for the first few days and then going with the flow. After all isn’t traveling all about being open to new experiences and going with the flow?
What time of year to go? Anytime! I was in Bali from June to September and never had a problem even though it was the busy season. I found there was plenty of accommodation and there were only a few instances when rooms were overpriced. The weather was great. If you overheat simply get out of the sun and drink plenty of water (or Bintang). I can’t imagine a time of year not being a perfect time to go to Bali.
Traveling as a Solo-Female… Do it! Bali was my first solo travel adventure. I felt completely safe the entire time. Sure I was nervous and had my concerns in the beginning, but they were quickly diminished. The Balinese are the friendliest people I have ever come across and will make you feel quickly at home. You won’t be the only solo-female traveler and it seems Bali is a mecca for meeting amazing people.
Of course use your best judgment. You will be traveling in a 3rd world country. Also, remember Bali is one of the thousands of islands in Indonesia and is the only island that is Hindu. If you travel outside of Bali be extra cautious.
What to pack (for women)? Loose clothing. Loose yoga pants. Loose tank tops. Loose Maxi dresses/skirts. Light sweater. Bathing suits. Flip flops. Don’t pack too much. You can purchase most of what you need there and trust me you will want to go shopping. Also, depending on the length of your stay, make sure you pack plenty of womanly products. Tampons can be purchased but are expensive.
The Techy Stuff… I traveled with an iPhone which I kept on airplane mode to avoid roaming and overseas costs. I used my iPhone for WiFi (which is readily available almost everywhere) and to take pictures. WhatsApp is a handy app to keep in touch with people back home or other travelers you meet along your journey. I also suggest purchasing a cheap phone once you get to Bali and getting an Indonesian sim card/number. I purchased a phone and minutes for 300,000 Rupiah (about $30). Other useful items can be a Kindle/Nook for reading and a laptop or iPad.
The Visa “Issue”… possibly the only pain about traveling in Indonesia. I suggest getting a 60 day visa from the Indonesian Embassy in your home county (if possible) before arriving to Indo. If you do not sort out your visa out beforehand you will pay $25 USD or 250,000 Indonesian Rupiah for a 30 day VOA (visa on arrival). If you are only staying in Bali for 30 days or less then the VOA makes the most sense, if not, read on…The 30 day VOA can be extended once for another 30 days. 7 days before the visa expires you will need to start the extension process. You can extend the visa yourself by making several trips to the Immigration office near Denpasar or pay someone to do it for you. I suggest the ladder. Every expat has a visa lady (or man) or there are businesses which handle extending visas. Just ask other travelers/expats, they will be more than willing to help. After 60 days (30+30) you must leave the country. Singapore is the most common visa run destination and flights can be purchased from Air Asia for an affordable price. This is the one part I wish I would have planned better. But then again, I was going with the flow and always wanted to check out Singapore.
The Famous Bali Belly… it does exist, it’s horrible and should be a concern. I had a few upset stomachs, but never (luckily) did I catch full on Bali belly. However, many of my friends did. Always be careful what you’re eating, but unfortunately you can get sick from Westernized food places too. To prevent Bali Belly travelers swear by Yakult, a pro-biotic drink that is readily available in Bali. Or you can take Acidophiles Capsules (another pro-biotic). Remember to never drink the water and wash your hands frequently. Charcoal and raspberry cordial are popular cures for Bali belly among travelers. I am not a doctor and am just sharing my knowledge from my recent travels. I suggest visiting your primary physician before you leave for Bali. They can prescribe the appropriate antibiotics for Bali belly and any other antibiotics you may need.
Health Kit… this is one place I do plan ahead and travel prepared. In my kit… band-aids (plasters), aspirin, condoms, Sovereign Silver, anti-bacterial ointment, Cortizone cream, Tiger Balm, charcoal pills, D-Mannose pills, cure for yeast infection, antibiotics for a UTI and whatever else the doctor recommends.
Are Bali dogs dangerous? YES! Avoid them at all times and especially at night.
Currency… Indonesian Rupiah (Rp)… 100,000 Rp = $10 USD (roughly)
How much do things cost, really? On average I spent $40 USD a day. I stayed in nice places, ate great food, attended yoga classes and drank Bintang.
The above is based on my travels throughout Bali. I fell in love with Bali instantly. Everyone is different and travels different. Remember to travel safe, be open and enjoy the journey. Drop me a line if you have any questions. Safe travels my fellow wanderers!
“As a blend of the raw energy and physicality of Red, and the sheer happiness of Yellow, Orange is truly the color of joy, interaction, creativity and playfulness.” Orange is the color of autumn, Halloween and pumpkins. It is the color of sunrises and new beginnings. And we must not forget, orange is the color of the San Francisco Giants! Go Giants!
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I’ve caught a case of the post-travel blues. Today, I have been home for 3 weeks and find myself longing for Bali. Lush green rice paddies, motorbikes, watching the Balinese children fly kites, chatting with fellow travelers over a Bintang, beauty wherever you look and most of all I long for the way I felt when I was traveling. I felt alive, awake, free, centered, and confident. I was always inspired and grateful.
“It’s a funny thing about comin’ home. Looks the same, smells the same, feels the same. You’ll realize what’s changed is you.” (Benjamin Button)
My physical body is in a place that is familiar to me. It is the place I grew up. It’s where my parents’ home is. Even though I have spent over 15 years living here, I feel as if I am on Mars. The people here are Martians. I don’t understand them and they don’t understand me. I was only gone a few months and while nothing changed at “home, everything has changed within me. I feel more alone here than I ever did being in a foreign land. I have a case of the post-travel blues.
Since hopping on the next flight from SFO to Indonesia is not an option. I need to find a cure to the post-travel blues.
#1: Cultivate the feelings of travel. Ask yourself… How did I feel when I was traveling? What did I like the most? How can I cultivate those feeling here, at home?
Cultivating the feelings you had when you were traveling is not an easy task, but it will keep the travel alive within you and will also keep you living in the present. Did you spend months in Italy and you miss the food and language? Sign up for an Italian language course. Dine at an authentic Italian restaurant with authentic Italian servers.
#2: Do new things. It is important not to get sucked into old habits that no longer serve you, a changed traveler. Part of the excitement of traveling are the feelings which arise from the newness. Make sure to add new activities into your schedule. Take a swing dancing class, go rock climbing, go sky diving, or join a kickball league. Do new activities that excite you and give you a sense of adventure.
#3: Find a community that gets you, the new you! It’s important to surround yourself with people who understand what you are going through and that support you. Take advantage of Facebook to reach out to the people you met along your journey. If they are back home, they surely know what you are going through. Find local traveler Meetup Groups. Read travel blogs. Nomadic Matt is just one of the thousands of inspiring travel blogs. Or start your own blog! And remember you are not alone!
#4: Be a tourist at home. Buy a guide book or Google “must see” in (insert where you live here), put on your best ridiculous tourist outfit and play tourist for a day! You know those people you see riding a Segway, be one!!!
#5: Pick the next destination and start saving! It is never too soon to start thinking about your next adventure. Pick a destination, purchase a Lonely Planet Guide Book and start saving!
How do you deal with the post-travel blues? What’s your remedy? Please share.
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